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How does one succeed in life?

15.06.2025 00:02

How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

If I only have a fire extinguisher to defend myself against some threat from people, should I spray them for max damage or just hit them with the fire extinguishers?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What causes tension between liberals and conservatives? Is it purely based on ideological differences or are there other factors at play?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Will my parents go to hell if I don't wear hijab, they tried to convince me and they provided it to me but I don't want to wear it?

What I need from you?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

That's it for today.

Why is pure dopamine not a recreational drug? And if it was wouldn’t it be the most addictive and fairly side effect free?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

If Jesus was crucified by Governor Pontius Pilate, why does the Quran deny his death?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

What is the worst thing your sibling has done?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Why do people mourn when their leaders lose elections? Is it common for people to cry over events that are out of their control?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How do I find a transgender girlfriend?

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

For those who were actually old enough to have experienced the 1970s and not for those who were born in the 70s. What were the pros and cons of that era?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

What do you think about Vivian Jenna Wilson's decision to speak out against her father, Elon Musk, in a public interview with NBC News?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Does not procrastinate.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Who believes that Speaker Mike Johnson will certify ‘a free and fair and legal election'? Who believes that Speaker Mike Johnson will NOT certify ‘a free and fair and legal election'? Why?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What was your biggest culture shock going to Europe?

Procrastinates a lot.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Do women like men who have slept with many women?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Is the Chinese economy currently collapsing? If not, what could potentially cause it to collapse?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Ask yourself:

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Honestly! Do you people actually watch all that nonsense produced by the nitwit network television stations or do they just claim you do?

Making more friends is a goal.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.